Early messages in the home, whether about the color of one's room, clothing, activities, gifts, or even cards for birthdays and holidays can impact children’s experiences as they progress through school and work, as well as in the personal relationships they forge. Whether these messages are intended or not, being sweet and caring is not solely the purview of girls, and being strong and daring is not solely the purview of boys. Ignored in the cards for girls are those whose interests are not limited to how they look or their future aspirations. Ignored in the cards for boys are those who do not identify with athletes or super heroes, and the emotional landscape of kindness and care for others. These early messages comprise only one area that impacts how young children learn to navigate their lives, and it is important to consider what is absent. The traits, behaviors, and thinking about one's body and aspirations speak volumes. “The above-mentioned differences in the imagery and messages conveyed in Valentine’s cards for children reflect binary thinking and dividing practices that perpetuate stereotypes, presumptions, and expectations about identity and behavior. Gender-based messaging creates a number of challenges and barriers for children. While daughters are also ‘special’ and can be ‘smart’ as well, they are ‘loved’ and ‘treasured’ for being ‘sweet,’ ‘beautiful,’ ‘loving,’ ‘poised,’ and ‘popular.’ They can also be ‘wonderful,’ whether they ‘eat or diet,’ or are ‘outgoing or quiet.’ “In light of the distinct activities reflected in Valentine’s cards that boys and girls exchange, it is not surprising that distinct qualities and traits are also conveyed in cards that parents give their children. Sons are ‘great,’ ‘daring,’ ‘strong,’ ‘amazing,’ and ‘special.’ Parents are ‘proud’ of them. Messages in cards designed for parents to give to children also reward different qualities and traits for sons and daughters. It’s important to note the absence of potential careers or sports for young girls, as those are reserved for boys’ cards, with few exceptions.” They are shown engaging in activities such as cheerleading, shopping, eating, and reading, and are always smiling. Often shiny stickers or other trinkets are included for girls to use. When girls appear on the cover, they are depicted as princesses or other cartoon figures wearing makeup and having slim or hourglass figures. Moreover, the font is often swirly or in script. In contrast, bold block lettering on blue, purple, orange, yellow, and red backgrounds appear in cards for boys, and with fewer hearts.” “Even before reading the message, one can tell at a distance which cards are intended for boys and which cards are intended for girls. Cards for young girls are remarkably consistent in using pastels such as pink, lilac, and pale blue, as well as red. Hearts are typical on the cover as well. Valentine's Day cards for children depict distinct color palettes and fonts for boys and girls. She unpacks and analyzes the current gendered messaging in her class "Communication Processes: Gender, Race, and Cultural Identity,” and as her students have examined her growing collection of cards, they have identified lasting messages signaled by differing colors, text, and characters.īorisoff spoke to NYU News to discuss the gendered messages of cards, the expectations and pressures they create for children, and changes that she has noticed in recent years. More than 30 years later, Borisoff says the Valentine’s landscape is largely unchanged. In the article, they share their lack of surprise by the “cards’ portrayal of little girls as sweet, loving, lovely, fragile, or, of little boys as active and strong.” In 1989, Borisoff and her co-author Judythe Isserlis published an analysis of Valentine’s Day cards with "The Real St Valentine's Day Massacre: The Communication of Gender in Valentine's Day Cards for Boys and Girls,” which appeared in New Dimensions in Communications: Proceedings of the 47th Annual New York State Communication Association. While this may seem like an innocuous tradition, NYU Steinhardt Professor Deborah Borisoff asserts that children’s cards often introduce and reinforce stereotypes and attitudes about gender as well as expectations about young children's bodies, interests, and behaviors. Typically thought of as a commercial holiday for adults fueled by purchases of wine, chocolates, jewelry, and lingerie, Valentine’s Day has also served as an opportunity for children to explore friendships, budding crushes, and social circles. A basketball soars toward the rim and assures the recipient, "You're a slam dunk." These images and sentiments are just two examples of the flurry of cards that will be exchanged in classrooms across the United States this February 14. "Narwhal Always Love You" says a sparkly narwhal surrounded by hearts on a holiday card.
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